Where is the stress in your life? I don’t mean what is causing you angst. But what are you focused on? This is a critical question for all of us who roll up our sleeves and help others grow. It can be exhausting and the outcomes disappointing. In 1 Corinthians 9, the apostle Paul cues us in on the stress of a nurturer.
“Am I not free? … Have I not seen Jesus our Lord? Are you not the result of my work?” (verse 1). I could do other things, but I choose to serve Jesus by helping you reach your potential.
“I have made myself a slave to everyone” (verse 19). I refuse to assert my rights or emphasize what I need. You are my priority now.
“I have become all things to all people” (verse 22). You are unique. I want to put myself in your place and understand you.
“Run in such a way as to get the prize” (verse 24). I’m competitive. I don’t want to lose you. And I want you to be a winner.
“I strike a blow to my body and make it my slave” (verse 27). I have to take care of myself if I’m going to be there for you. I’m working hard on self-discipline.
“I myself will not be disqualified for the prize” (verse 27). We share in the gospel. I want both of us to be in heaven.
The stress of the nurturer is relieved by what the nurturer stresses.
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About the Author
Jason Nelson
Jason had a career as a teacher, counselor, and leader. He has written and spoken extensively on a variety of topics related to the Christian life. He has been a contributing writer for Time of Grace since 2010. Jason lives with his wife, Nancy, in Wisconsin.